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Hmmm well that makes sence but I've also heard sumwhere that there needs to be sum sort of penetration for u to lose ur virginity ,meaning anal would count ?

Dictionary definition would be vaginal sex only to lose your virginity.

'Street' definition anything of that sort counts.

7 hours? That's a lot of money. lol j/k

okay well i scanned the last few pages about the "what is loosing your virginity" well if its only dick in vagina then gay people men and women both are virgins? i think virgin could be streched or limited to almost anything

Well we were drunk...we'd known each other since elementary school...so there was this attitude of "atleast its not a stranger" kinda thing...

Alcohol desensitizes me...plus the added benefit of being less...guarded about what you want and feel like saying/doing...

I can't talk dirty though...drunk or sober...unless its within the realm of a conversation or discusion...I'm not the kind of guy that'd smack her a$$ from behind and say, "you like that don't you b*tch!!"

I'm assertive...but I won't engage in TDTM no matter if she's into it...I think that stuff is kinda retarded...but whatever...

to the guy above me...what is this TDTM u speak off?????

Also does "oral sex" only (like a BJ) consider u losing ur virginity????

i dont kno

i havent done anything of the sort yet....Im only 16 atm right now

TDTM = Talk Dirty To Me

And no, oral sex is not losing your virginity...

so you were drunk for 7 hours and managed to recall everything you ever wanted to do to woman and carry out the task while at the same time losing the inhibitions that kept your guard up but not losing the ones that kept you from smacking her a** all while being completely sensitively assertive.....


did i get all that

I don't have a very long list...it's mostly positions...clothing preferences...and...I love foreplay...

I love the very act of making out itself...I like to feel her...not just from the inside...I like to feel tension...I like to feel how she moves when I touch a certain way...how she breathes...I like the heat...I like how her lips swell when I kiss her...I like how the pupils dilate...I like how her eyes can have this electric glow...I drown in it...

I love everything about it...it completely mesmerizes me...an utter fascination with all these body signals...scents...the sweat...that at this point in my life...all is well...I take my time...

Smacking her ass just doesn't fit into it...neither does the TDTM...

And alcohol just pulls me into it more...

i dunno for some reason this sounds more like a fantasy then reality...plz dont go into anymore detail either...to talk so openly of your desires is a tad....unnerving, unless your drinking of course because your acting you don't have a guard at all...

Well these are the things that go through my mind at the time...plus you're contesting how I do things...I'm comfortable with what I like and what I don't like...As far as having a guard goes...it's only up when I'm talking with women and/or I want to make a good impression...I look for the long term...not short term gratification...I'm not some love craved imbecile who's own lust gets in the way of what he really wants or needs in a good partner...frantic f*cking is only excusable if the worlds about to end...and as far as I know I'll be waking up tomorrow...

im sorry but i'd call drunk sex frantic f*king....

and im still not the buy the too perfect story its like something out of a bad romance novel....anyways im done with this *goes to bed*

...I never said it was perfect...I made common virgin mistakes being that it was my first time...but you never asked about those now did you...you instead preferred to contest how I could do all the things I wanted to do...and how it would take 7 hours to do so...and why I don't do TDTM and smack a girls a$$...which I answered...

And if your only experiences with drunken sex has always been frantic then I pity you...

@ZeFrog
do u have complex about "TDTM" and ass smacking becouse u keep mentioning it even if no1 else is talking about it or have shown oposite opnion about it
even if i like what you are saying i still agree whit XemnasXD

the way u talked....its a bit hard to seriously think of it if u told it diferently meaby then but this way it sounds unreal even for romantic soul like myself

lmao TDTM

thats so classic.

I was 15. Was only with my girlfriend for a month at the time, some thought it wasnt long enough, but we have been together for nearly a year now

^_^

No one wants details (i hope not - dirty nerds ), but what i will say is it was v. romantic, i love her!!

IMO It's any form of penetration for a guy. IE. Stick it where ever and you lost your virginity.

And for a female well thats obvious. Vaginal penetration.


Oh and lol @ ZeFrog.

What about lesbians?

mouth?




mouth to mouse hehehe

what you mean where ever ?


Wow what dirty, the thread become @TwelveEleven

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lzFRyr4LNdc

At 0:28 is how lesbians lose virginity ! Oh .. i guess it's NSFW if colleagues are old fashioned .

that clip is...
1211 is right about lesbo's thou i must say i have no idea about them..how they lose there...

The magical black rubber stick many call a dildo ?

lol ...but seriously they can play whit that themselfs, they dont need any1 else ....dont think that its ok for me ( as male) to discuss this so i wont post any1 more on this subject but u must admit its pretty confusing if u think about it

Just cos they can do it themselves doesn't mean it's as good...haha maybe to a chick who masturbates 5 times a day...

Its down to how I perceive my reality...

the grass doesn't just grow...it struggles with itself to find the means to escape...concentrating its will and the desire for life to break through the walls of its dark prison...to seize the light...to seize that one small spot in world...to behold the sun in its magnificent glory...and drink from the bottomless well that is the sky...

This is how I see things...its how I've always seen things...strange...weird...fantastical maybe...the only thing thats ever come close to resembling how I view things was that movie "A Scanner Darkly"...I'm not saying I see things in a graphic novel format visually...but its the elements weaved into the mundane that I see...

So...think what you want...

@ZeFrog
Man you sure have a way whit words i recomend writing books you would make a fortune and i would be glad to read something u wrote if u see things like that its gift its not wierd its just diferent...im glad for you

I've been told that before...meh...I can't do it for the same reason I can't keep a journal or a diary...it feels like writing a book about writing a book...

now i know how that feels i have same prob i have this idea that would make great book but when ever i try to write it down it wonders off the core of my idea into somehing stilysh just becouse im writing about it ...even when i talk about it whit some friends i wonder off ...they liked my idea thou

p.s. all writting mistakes are due to my bad spelling abilityes

I have Christian values, and I'm not afraid to admit it.
But haven't any of you ever hear of under-aged sex, and how it's illegal if you're not fully 18?

Most of you are confusing 'love' with 'lust', which just isn't right. In every single relationship, there is a sexual desire. Now take that desire out, and see if you still love the person for who they are, and what you both have without that 'desire' or 'need for the feeling'. If you don't, you're lusting, and you just want their body.

Searching for someone who really 'loves' you is almost hard to find, nearly impossible though not. Someone who deeply cares about you and values you for you is rare in this world, and you're lucky if you can even meet one. Continue to test each other throughout your relationship, to see that they and you yourself are not falling into that 'desire' to which you have a blind eye to. If you're one of those that said that, where you're waiting someone you really love, then I just hope you know if it's true or not before it's too late.