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bboy23 · **Joined:** Apr 2008 **Posts:** 132 **Location:**

My theories: 2 things:

1. "nice" guys tend to be TOO nice, which for girls may seem they are not that exciting and thus kind of boring, you would have to actually get to know the girl and show her what you are made of. BUT nice guys always think girls will come to them, and they just watch all the girls go with assholes and they complaint for what? for not doing anything about it?...

2. Most of those girls are young, they want the thrill of being with a bad ass, the craziest guy! they party party party hot dude, even though he is a total idiot and treats her like shit. BUT it is still fun for them, it's in their system, they just want that experience, once they start growing up, they realize they now have nothing... and start looking for someone with a head on his shoulders...

DAMN! women are bitches!

Priam · **Posted:** Mon Sep 08, 2008 7:21 am

Norain_ wrote:

Priam wrote:

Simple, there's no danger in nice guys. You always know what you're gonna get. While those tough idiots might suprise you by cheating one day. And girls seem to like to take those chances.

But why change ur personality to something you arent? I wouldnt try be some1 im not for a girl tho. If she doesnt like it so be it...

I didn't say I would. IRL i'm a lot nicer then on this forum :roll:

And it has served me well so far, found a great girl, happy for over 3 years now, i don't need to be badass.

Rakion · **Posted:** Mon Sep 08, 2008 9:18 am

usually i really see these things coming naturally at school ranging from Philippine Highschool and College... but on ppl that have a stable jobs... i find females landing on better men, but their are some females that are unfortunate, and they end up becoming a slave of "THEIR TRUE LOVE??!!!?!??" and have more than 5 children and their husbands jobs?... a local carpenter... do see them happy?... no .....why? her husband, after from work spend their daily food money for overnight beer fest!!! and after that they come home angry and stuff, kick their children and rape their own wife.

that what happened to one of my close, popular, and also beautiful(not my type) friends... she still 23 and now she got 5 children ... DO-RE-MI-FA-SO... yeah acceding order.

all i could say?...

always make the first move... before she might end up like what i said above. if you dont have that mush confidence, develop it. fill in the gaps that are ment to be filled.

i felt bad for her...

Love · **Joined:** Nov 2007 **Posts:** 5336 **Location:**

i think the answer is a lot simpler, nice guys for the most part dont really know how to treat women and by that i mean keep an edge on the relationship and a lot guys that describe themselves as *nice* arent particularly attractive wish also plays a big role, if you have a 6 pack you barely have to talk to some girls......seriously.

also younger females have unrealistic expectations on relationships and if you are passive wish is sorta a trait of nice guys they will think that is as good as is going to get and look elsewhere and even maybe a shitty situation with a bad guy both having to pull together makes her think they can do anything as long as they have each other, this sorta makes them maybe dependent on each other as oppose to the nice guy giving her everything and her not appreciating it

if you want hope once they get in their 30's they want to settle down and there are a lot of this desperate womens who you can find on dating sites, they pretty much are looking for some1 to spend the rest of their lives with and have a rather nourishing relationship so you get to do what you do best, take care of them

i hope the mystery has being solved

antics · **Posted:** Mon Sep 08, 2008 2:46 pm

Love wrote:

i think the answer is a lot simpler, nice guys for the most part dont really know how to treat women and by that i mean keep an edge on the relationship and a lot guys that describe themselves as *nice* arent particularly attractive wish also plays a big role, if you have a 6 pack you barely have to talk to some girls......seriously.

also younger females have unrealistic expectations on relationships and if you are passive wish is sorta a trait of nice guys they will think that is as good as is going to get and look elsewhere and even maybe a shitty situation with a bad guy both having to pull together makes her think they can do anything as long as they have each other, this sorta makes them maybe dependent on each other as oppose to the nice guy giving her everything and her not appreciating it

if you want hope once they get in their 30's they want to settle down and there are a lot of this desperate womens who you can find on dating sites, they pretty much are looking for some1 to spend the rest of their lives with and have a rather nourishing relationship so you get to do what you do best, take care of them

i hope the mystery has being solved

i agree

every girl wont go out with u if ur nice. if thats wut ur thinking
you must be pleasing to the eye to them. they have their standards

Love · **Joined:** Nov 2007 **Posts:** 5336 **Location:**

/bump

i want to hear more

magisuns · **Posted:** Tue Sep 09, 2008 11:22 pm

masochist?

XemnasXD · **Posted:** Tue Sep 09, 2008 11:44 pm

cause deep down all girls like it rough. Its primal, masculine, confident, dominate, sexy. In the halls of my school i literally watched a guy threat to choke the sh1t of of this "b1tch" while she laughed and giggled...that was flirting. The bad boy is fun for awhile when girls are young and all they are looking for is something that they can prance around and be proud of "yeah thats my man that just stuffed that kid in a locker" sounds alot better than "yeah thats my man that just got stuffed in a locker."

As they get older and mature most of them will want more stability in their life, if they're just looking for sex the bad boy thing is always good but if they want someone who they know will stick around and support them if they need it they'll go with the nice guy.

this is a general case not taking into the psychological accounts girls may have with their fathers, uncles, brothers, etc. (they say a father defines what a girl ends up looking for in a man)

Draquish · **Joined:** Mar 2006 **Posts:** 6423 **Location:** ____

CrimsonNuker wrote:

Draquish wrote:

I believe its not assholes girls are attracted to, but dominating guys.

Nice guys tend to be wusses, and tend to be whipped by the end of the relationship.

Screw that.

Haha THE ALPHA MALE

Damn right.

Monkeys know it, an assortment of social animals know it; basically everyone has figured this out. (In my own little world)

Reise · **Joined:** May 2006 **Posts:** 6650 **Location:**

BE GENETICALLY DIFFERENT, BRO.

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