i need little help with girls >.<

speeble · **Joined:** Aug 2008 **Posts:** 267 **Location:** SRO

You: Hi
Her: Hey?
You: t1tz or GTF0
Her: *slaps your face*

magisuns · **Posted:** Wed Sep 03, 2008 4:22 am

this noop fack got 3 pages? :roll:

that was fast

user · **Posted:** Wed Sep 03, 2008 4:32 am

Verfo wrote:

i think iam gonna be like this

hey
hey
whats up
nm u
nm so how long you been playing volleyball
blabla
cool so what school did you come from?
blabla
was it cool there or here better?
blabla
nice nice so how was your summer?
blabla

more like
Hi
Hey
Give me three good reasons why I shouldn't ask you to the prom.

Panu · **Joined:** Aug 2007 **Posts:** 3536 **Location:** Around

ummm, well i donno how to help you but i'll tell you how i got my sweetie.

i met her when i went with a bunch of friends at a party, and was like "hey, you go to the same school" then lalala talk talk talk, then i ate lunch with her at school, then went to another party with her, drove her home, next day i skipped saying i was sick, she texted me knowing where was i, then later that night i went to her house and got couple friends to help me sing her a song from simple plan (everytime) and i asked her to homecoming ... she ran outside crying into my arms saying yes ... and the rest is history.

sorry for the essay up durr.

Verfo · **Posted:** Thu Sep 04, 2008 12:25 am

err here is what happened
she came into class, so i said
we dont have reading time in class today

so she was like: aww
then the teacher came in and we took the lesson, we didnt have any partners activities

so at the last 5 mins, just when i tried to make a conversation, she turned around cuz another girl was talking to her so ya...
and tomorow we're changing seats so iam not gonna be sitting infront of her probably

so i think my best shot would be a note

Panu · **Joined:** Aug 2007 **Posts:** 3536 **Location:** Around

Verfo wrote:

err here is what happened
she came into class, so i said
we dont have reading time in class today

so she was like: aww
then the teacher came in and we took the lesson, we didnt have any partners activities

so at the last 5 mins, just when i tried to make a conversation, she turned around cuz another girl was talking to her so ya...
and tomorow we're changing seats so iam not gonna be sitting infront of her probably

so i think my best shot would be a note

dont write notes, not effective. could you ask her once that class is over with and everyone is leaving? like when people leave you hold her back and ask her?

Verfo · **Posted:** Thu Sep 04, 2008 12:29 am

_Panu_ wrote:

Verfo wrote:

err here is what happened
she came into class, so i said
we dont have reading time in class today

so she was like: aww
then the teacher came in and we took the lesson, we didnt have any partners activities

so at the last 5 mins, just when i tried to make a conversation, she turned around cuz another girl was talking to her so ya...
and tomorow we're changing seats so iam not gonna be sitting infront of her probably

so i think my best shot would be a note

dont write notes, not effective. could you ask her once that class is over with and everyone is leaving? like when people leave you hold her back and ask her?

well she has Gym after that class so its on the other way of school, and once the bell ring she is gone

Squirt · **Joined:** Jan 2008 **Posts:** 8186 **Location:**

Verfo wrote:

err here is what happened
she came into class, so i said
we dont have reading time in class today

so she was like: aww
then the teacher came in and we took the lesson, we didnt have any partners activities

so at the last 5 mins, just when i tried to make a conversation, she turned around cuz another girl was talking to her so ya...
and tomorow we're changing seats so iam not gonna be sitting infront of her probably

so i think my best shot would be a note

First of all WTF your assigned seats in your high school what are you 5?

When your doing an assingment be like This is easy if you need any help I'll be happy to help you ^.^

Verfo · **Posted:** Thu Sep 04, 2008 1:02 am

Squirt wrote:

Verfo wrote:

err here is what happened
she came into class, so i said
we dont have reading time in class today

so she was like: aww
then the teacher came in and we took the lesson, we didnt have any partners activities

so at the last 5 mins, just when i tried to make a conversation, she turned around cuz another girl was talking to her so ya...
and tomorow we're changing seats so iam not gonna be sitting infront of her probably

so i think my best shot would be a note

First of all WTF your assigned seats in your high school what are you 5?

When your doing an assingment be like This is easy if you need any help I'll be happy to help you ^.^

ya...
u have to get assigned seats or hell will break loose, and i cant like go all the way from one side to another just to ask her for help

Ramidux · **Joined:** Jun 2008 **Posts:** 376

Squirt wrote:

First of all WTF your assigned seats in your high school what are you 5?

Here in Belgium, assigned seats are usual so..

Squirt · **Joined:** Jan 2008 **Posts:** 8186 **Location:**

Verfo wrote:

Squirt wrote:

Verfo wrote:

err here is what happened
she came into class, so i said
we dont have reading time in class today

so she was like: aww
then the teacher came in and we took the lesson, we didnt have any partners activities

so at the last 5 mins, just when i tried to make a conversation, she turned around cuz another girl was talking to her so ya...
and tomorow we're changing seats so iam not gonna be sitting infront of her probably

so i think my best shot would be a note

First of all WTF your assigned seats in your high school what are you 5?

When your doing an assingment be like This is easy if you need any help I'll be happy to help you ^.^

ya...
u have to get assigned seats or hell will break loose, and i cant like go all the way from one side to another just to ask her for help

You should just talk to her on the free time before class starts, Its a good 5-10 minutes so you should get some good things in there

Verfo · **Posted:** Thu Sep 04, 2008 1:29 am

not really its like 3 mins, i think iam just gonna give up, and go emo

Barotix · **Joined:** Jul 2007 **Posts:** 9250 **Location:** Sand

Verfo wrote:

not really its like 3 mins, i think iam just gonna give up, and go emo

Pick a more accessible girl.

antics · **Posted:** Thu Sep 04, 2008 1:50 am

just tell her u liek her
if she says no u wont have lost 4 weeks getting to know her n shit
and if she says it back then ur set get to know her and then ask her out
it takes two to tango with love blah blah blah

Verfo · **Posted:** Thu Sep 04, 2008 1:54 am

Barotix wrote:

Verfo wrote:

not really its like 3 mins, i think iam just gonna give up, and go emo

Pick a more accessible girl.

but i dont like other girls, i like HER.

[TS]=Hark=[TS] · **Posted:** Thu Sep 04, 2008 1:55 am

now your just being stuborn

Inuyasha584 · **Joined:** Jun 2007 **Posts:** 1491 **Location:**

Verfo wrote:

Barotix wrote:

Verfo wrote:

not really its like 3 mins, i think iam just gonna give up, and go emo

Pick a more accessible girl.

but i dont like other girls, i like HER.

me too

Panu · **Joined:** Aug 2007 **Posts:** 3536 **Location:** Around

ok, if you like her sooo badly then grow some nuts and be like "wait up hoe, i find your fine ass attractive and wanna get in on that puusy popper."

well dont say that lul, just go talk to her, make her wait instead of going to gym like literally chase her, the more you wait the more theres a chance someone will take her.

Crowley · **Posted:** Thu Sep 04, 2008 9:55 am

I'm having the same problem as you >.< There's this really, really, really hot girl at my school xD It's not like I like/love her, but I'd totally wanna do her >.< I reckon she's at least 50 ice cubes.

Nitro · **Joined:** Sep 2007 **Posts:** 4769 **Location:**

Lol Verfo you're pussy ... I tought you have bigger balls ....

Seriously, I know how hard it is, but just do it lol ... grab her by her hand when everyone is leaving, just talk to her, there isnt any special recipe , the words will come itself ...
Just dont plan anything, and dont mess up ...

Ask her for phone number ... P.S. I liked idea "Tell me 3 reasons why shouldnt I ask you for prom"... Sounds really cute... but you need alot of self confidence.

Good luck, inform us how the things go ... I wouldnt quit that girl only if you sit on other place now ...

Doron · **Posted:** Thu Sep 04, 2008 10:41 am

a little birdy told me that my sweetie is going to cheat on me with a girl from his class!!

OMG!

Well, what you gotta do is...

Open your mouth and talk!

Fuckin hell.. I thought you learned from when we met...

damn..

Okay, you just go sit on her table and say hi.

Introduce yourself, and start talking like:

Hi, I'm Verfo... but you can call me.. err.. Verfo...=3
<<girl introduction>>
You're new here, right? So how's it?
<<bla bla girl>>
Awesome...
<<I know, right?>>
And then keep on bablin untill you have to sit, then just say bye and m'kay.. and like, talk moar often to her asking for things, and then eventually like, I can haz ur MSNz? foar hw I meanz.

M'kay?

The Mobius · **Joined:** Feb 2008 **Posts:** 126 **Location:**

Barotix wrote:

Relying on Aim will land your ass in the friend zone and that's near impossible to shake off unless she falls for you.

+219812984ksajfl92849.

Listen to this man. What he says is true.

Aim = will get you in the friend zone.
Real life = will get her thinking about you.
Facebook = A little mix of both

But never, ever, take the aim approach... trust me.

rek · **Posted:** Thu Sep 04, 2008 11:15 am

Verfo wrote:

i think iam gonna be like this

hey
hey
whats up
nm u
nm so how long you been playing volleyball
blabla
cool so what school did you come from?
blabla
was it cool there or here better?
blabla
nice nice so how was your summer?
blabla

Why are you planning the conversation? I cant believe you did that.. :banghead:

That conversation sounds forced already. Wing it!!

antics · **Posted:** Thu Sep 04, 2008 2:53 pm

isnt prom like 6 months away?
well for me its in mayish.

Suppaman · **Joined:** Jun 2006 **Posts:** 1346 **Location:**

You could start by not being shy. Just walk up and say Heya! You have nothing to lose and when a girl notices that you have courage they tend to give you a chance :S

pr0klobster · **Joined:** Oct 2007 **Posts:** 1427 **Location:**

Yeesh...

I'm 44. Growing up, I was not social, but I developed enough confidence to at least TALK with people.

Treat her like a guy. You know what I mean, not like "Hai you dope, howz it hanging", but ignore the opposite sex thing. You need to project confidence. Being shy doesn't get you any dates (although it might earn you a computer career and good money).

Or, do this:

"Hi, has anyone told you that your eyes are limpid pools of <color>?"

Her: Yes/no

You: Ok, then I'm telling you <and smile>. (or, Guess it'd be redundant to say it again)
What's your name? Hi, I'm <xyz>. How do you like the class so far?

All you really need is an opening, a hook, something to get her talking. Keep eye contact, smile occasionally, make sure you LISTEN to her instead of getting caught up in her looks. Find a common interest and talk about it. Then at least you can say "Wow, I'm into that too! Do you want to go to <social function/for a walk, sit in the park, go bicycling, check out the library and make the librarian laugh, etc, etc.>

Doron · **Posted:** Fri Sep 05, 2008 4:06 pm

Oh, and whatever you do, keep eye contact, and DO NOT LOOK AT HER BOOBS!

BloodyBlade · **Posted:** Fri Sep 05, 2008 4:26 pm

Ramidux wrote:

Squirt wrote:

First of all WTF your assigned seats in your high school what are you 5?

Here in Belgium, assigned seats are usual so..

Not in all schools here.

Verfo · **Posted:** Fri Sep 05, 2008 6:59 pm

i talked to her and she said she likes this other dude.

mod can lock

wk123 · **Joined:** Sep 2008 **Posts:** 12 **Location:**

she said she likes, doesn't mean anything. regardless of how shy you are, just talk to her no matter what. Even if it is stupid... she'll find it interesting somehow or some way. You can tell her how you feel disregard the feeling of embarrassment. Girls like straight up guys who talk truthfully and not those who try to act as someone else. So if you do that, it'll become easier for you to talk later on and easier for you to get to know her better. Unless if she's a bitch and only thinks of the outside then just throw her in a trash nearby.

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