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Well my girlfirend has recently been slightly distant with me, litteratly we were close as hell up till 3 weeks ago, i mean she used to talk to me about everything!. And i mean everything!.

She seems to respond to competition, i had a few of my close girl mates text/ phone me pretending to be some girl that wanted me. After that she noticed my texts, And she got really affectionate towards me last night 30/12/08.

but again she's appearing distant with me.......

I love this girl more than anything, and with previous girlfriends i've had the same problem....

but acording to my one of my close girl mates i deserve more than some bitch thas gonna take the piss. They say i'm one of the nicest guys they know, and they dont understand how someone could take me for granted.

i'm just wondering how many guys have treated their girl like gold and had it thrown back in their face??

Stereotypically, us guys are the players and we **** girls about........

I find every girl i've been with, and treated amazingly.... has farked me over....

Well guys and girls, has this happend to you and/or how have you delt with a similar situation.....

i'm very drunk as i post this, I hope everyone had a great Xmas and those that werent celebating Xmas hope you've had good holidays. And i wish everyone a happy new year (I,ve been at these forums for so long...... just not a big poster)

Good luck with the future.........

muchos love <3 xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Sometimes you really have to be a ass, and not so nice
I know where your coming from and girls really do take advantage of nice guys, take a break for awhile
If shes into you she'll be back

This sorta thing happened a lot with my high school gf, and now we're living together

i know what you mean mate.

while i was pretending to be a player she got really concerned and grabbed onto me.........

i just wish there was a way to make her more attached to me withought being a complete dick..............

she's a lovely girl but i dunno if she deserves the way i treat her.....

know what i mean?

<3 xxxxx

Well, you don't have to be a total ass to her, just don't talk to her so much
All in all, just kinda avoid her, hang out with other people, tell her you need a break, talk to other girls and don't care what she thinks for the time being

Show her whos boss and give her some anal after a fish dinner.

That works, if you want to kill her

Far while having sex. xD

Never use jealousy to get a girl, will make everything way worse.

This is why i love this forum, so many, truthfull/funny commments

but at the same time meaningful.

Honestly i just wannna know, how many gus treat there grilfriends like gold and have it thrown back in their faces.

..........................????

That guy form sesame street. he treats that pig like Prime rib and she dont give any to him lol.

lol well we had sex alll the time (aww while ago) , not so much now....... she just seems to be emotionally distant with me...

I've got a lot of gorgeous girls after me....

but its my GF i want.........

Th3souL, you probably stick to the poor girl 24/7, give her some space, geez

Yeah give her some space, give her like a week and then if you really do feel this way with her, after that week tell her..girls always need some time alone...

never happened to me. all my girlfriends treated me like i treaded them. and i where never a asshole to them.

@thread starter: You remind me of this dude "Drake."


Anywho, my girl treats me like a king. .

OH GOD IT RETURNED

Don't go for jealousy, it will fux you over.

If she's emotionally distant, there's probably something going on with her. Get her to open up, maybe plan something special like a nice date or something to have a nice change.

If she ends up sayig there's a big problem that needs to be 'changed'.. go for it, but if it means cutting out part of your regular life (unless its drugs or alcohol) like friends, family, job, or whatever.. it's best to let go. Don't change your personality or lifestyle for anyone unless it's something materialistic that can easily be let go of.

not this again...

I change girls as often as I change socks....I can't stay with a girl for more than 3 weeks or 4 weeks....First 2 weeks its great but once you get into week 3 they whine....whine...whine and whine some more.... **** man I hate bitches that whine....

I remember this one chick I dated her cat died and she cried for days and days...Guess what I did? I tried being a nice guy and got her a new one....looked just like her other cat. WTF do you think she did? She flipped out saying its not the same blah blah blah.... What do you think I did with the cat? Donated it to the AP Biology Classroom which she ended up taking the next year... LOL

So my tip to you is don't be nice. Show them you can live with out them and can get any other chick you want.

Ito they're kids.. they don't do romantic dates they make out

best advise eva

Pound it like a cake, dump it like a truck.

Hum. She sounds bored.

Magic wearing off a bit.

Stay a challenge. Make some of your own time. Keep it new and interesting.

Less, find yourself eventually replaced, when 'new magic' comes along.

She have a jealous spike, she panic a bit, feel like might lose you, gets a little clingy

Then back to comfortable... less interested again.

Oh, and having mates or whatnot text and trick your girl, some kiddie shit man.

Let the girls do crap like that. Have their friends email u, try hit on you just to trick n test you, see what you say

Dont stoop to that.

...you bought her another cat, thats really stupid...very stupid..its obvious that she would say its not the same, its like saying oh shit my son died today and you adopt a child for her....stupid...

my gf dog died a couple of weeks ago, i didnt give her anything just a warm hug and spent some alone time with her...

and if you cant keep or stand a girl for more than 3weeks, you are one shallow person...

lol