Best way to apoligize?

izmeister · **Joined:** Feb 2008 **Posts:** 1138 **Location:** Yes

I feel really guilty about something I did and the title says the rest.

cin · **Posted:** Mon Sep 29, 2008 8:45 pm

how about saying you're sorry?

or did you blow up a building or something, in that case
sorry isn't enough.

izmeister · **Joined:** Feb 2008 **Posts:** 1138 **Location:** Yes

cin wrote:

how about saying you're sorry?

or did you blow up a building or something, in that case
sorry isn't enough.

Thats it? Just say "I'm sorry"?

ThiefzV2 · **Joined:** Jan 2007 **Posts:** 566 **Location:**

depends on the scenario and what happens.... u gotta give more information.

if you accidently ran into someone and they fall down, then it's understandable.

but if you took a gun and blow someone's brain off, and then try to apologize to the person's mom then u might as well forget it

izmeister · **Joined:** Feb 2008 **Posts:** 1138 **Location:** Yes

ThiefzV2 wrote:

depends on the scenario and what happens.... u gotta give more information.

if you accidently ran into someone and they fall down, then it's understandable.

but if you took a gun and blow someone's brain off, and then try to apologize to the person's mom then u might as well forget it

Well, no one died lol, I think I may have made someone feel like shit though =/

ThiefzV2 · **Joined:** Jan 2007 **Posts:** 566 **Location:**

holy cow dont be so secretive it's the internetz no one is going to know who the fack u are. nothing's private on SRF :love:

ask me anything and i will answer

izmeister · **Joined:** Feb 2008 **Posts:** 1138 **Location:** Yes

ThiefzV2 wrote:

holy cow dont be so secretive it's the internetz no one is going to know who the fack u are. nothing's private on SRF :love:

ask me anything and i will answer

Well, I was ignoring someone I really should not have been ignoring. I do not know what I was thinking and now I know they are extremely mad at me. And this person is one of my only friends :banghead:

Rainigul · **Joined:** Mar 2007 **Posts:** 4490 **Location:**

ThiefzV2 wrote:

depends on the scenario and what happens.... u gotta give more information.

if you accidently ran into someone and they fall down, then it's understandable.

but if you took a gun and blow someone's brain off, and then try to apologize to the person's mom then u might as well forget it

"Would apologizing be meaningless?"
"Never"

Some people say "sorry isn't enough", but if you truly mean it, sorry will always have some value.

Hostage · **Posted:** Mon Sep 29, 2008 9:05 pm

Some how I get the feeling there is a girl involved and as soon you man up and admit it the faster we get everyone going all lovey dovey on us and sharing their sap story with us over with. :love:

Crowley · **Posted:** Mon Sep 29, 2008 9:07 pm

Rainigul wrote:

Some people say "sorry isn't enough", but if you truly mean it, sorry will always have some value.

Wow. That is the gayest thing I've heard today.

cin · **Posted:** Mon Sep 29, 2008 9:12 pm

Tsume wrote:

Rainigul wrote:

Some people say "sorry isn't enough", but if you truly mean it, sorry will always have some value.

Wow. That is the gayest thing I've heard today.

explain yourself

Crowley · **Posted:** Mon Sep 29, 2008 9:22 pm

cin, what are you implying?

Reise · **Joined:** May 2006 **Posts:** 6650 **Location:**

Real men can apologize when they need to.

cin · **Posted:** Mon Sep 29, 2008 9:27 pm

Tsume wrote:

cin, what are you implying?

wtf do you think im implying

WTF IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE CALLING EVERYTHING GAY

srsly man. i bet you're the kind of guy who only talks
to his friends about how you punch guys in the face right?
you're probably cool like that right?

Hostage · **Posted:** Mon Sep 29, 2008 9:29 pm

Oh shit son. cin snapped.

..that's when you know you need to run.

Love · **Joined:** Nov 2007 **Posts:** 5336 **Location:**

just say you are sorry

XemnasXD · **Posted:** Mon Sep 29, 2008 9:40 pm

Rainigul wrote:

ThiefzV2 wrote:

depends on the scenario and what happens.... u gotta give more information.

if you accidently ran into someone and they fall down, then it's understandable.

but if you took a gun and blow someone's brain off, and then try to apologize to the person's mom then u might as well forget it

"Is it meaningless to apologize?"
"Never"

If your gonna quote VforVendetta do it right...

and yeah just say your sorry and if its something so bad they you think sorry won't help don't expect forgiveness

Crowley · **Posted:** Mon Sep 29, 2008 10:21 pm

cin wrote:

Tsume wrote:

cin, what are you implying?

wtf do you think im implying

WTF IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE CALLING EVERYTHING GAY

srsly man. i bet you're the kind of guy who only talks
to his friends about how you punch guys in the face right?
you're probably cool like that right?

Well, I'm not that kind of guy.

Azilius · **Joined:** Oct 2006 **Posts:** 4236 **Location:** CS:GO

Tsume wrote:

cin wrote:

Tsume wrote:

cin, what are you implying?

wtf do you think im implying

WTF IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE CALLING EVERYTHING GAY

srsly man. i bet you're the kind of guy who only talks
to his friends about how you punch guys in the face right?
you're probably cool like that right?

Well, I'm not that kind of guy.

The point was nothing in that sentence was gay or even relevant to being gay. It was actually a true and well said statement.

heroo · **Joined:** Sep 2006 **Posts:** 6618 **Location:**

Words can make alot of difference.

Actions even more.

_Creep_ · **Posted:** Mon Sep 29, 2008 11:44 pm

"Its to late to apoligize, its to lateeeeeeee"

Kirkaldi · **Joined:** Jul 2008 **Posts:** 3083 **Location:** nyc

Sorry is a very very powerful word. It just depends on how you use it. IF you use your heart, and put the effort in it, it will work.

Verfo · **Posted:** Tue Sep 30, 2008 12:36 am

well if you go like

um whatever sorry and then just like walk away then its meaningless but if you go and say hey iam really sorry for ignoring you, i just have been in alot bad times lately, and iam sorry then he/she is gonna forgive you

CloudStrider · **Joined:** Jul 2008 **Posts:** 2125 **Location:** Away

Reise wrote:

Real men can apologize when they need to.

True just man up and say it with meaning also, is this you?! I remember you had it as an avatar.

Grimjaw · **Posted:** Tue Sep 30, 2008 12:44 am

Regret has to come from the Heart not the Mind, Only then are those feelings sincere and only then may forgiveness be hoped for,but never asked.

emperor3000 · **Joined:** Nov 2007 **Posts:** 1049 **Location:** Home

Like the above posts, saying sorry and you actually meaning it, then its fine, pretty normal way.

You can try to apologize in a different way, like sorry to your girl, buy her some gifts, with apologies and dinner to go with it or something.

So try to go with the current status that you have, then try to blend it into your "apology" so that you can find the best way to apologize for whatever reason that you need apologizing for. :wink:

Hope i said it right, too much apology, ize, ing, making me bite my tongue after proof reading it >.<

izmeister · **Joined:** Feb 2008 **Posts:** 1138 **Location:** Yes

thx guys and/or girls, I feel a lot better after reading the advice here.

_Creep_ wrote:

"Its to late to apoligize, its to lateeeeeeee"

That's exactly what I'm scared of

Doron · **Posted:** Tue Sep 30, 2008 1:02 pm

yeah, like those 4 brittish **** and phil collins sang:

Sorry seems to be the hardest word.

Well, be a man and break that damn word, and say it, for **** sake.

Just say, I'm sorry what I said and I hope you will accept my apoligies.

Power · **Joined:** May 2006 **Posts:** 49 **Location:**

Just be straight. Tell him/her there's no pressure, and that you miss his/her friendship.

phulshof · **Joined:** Apr 2006 **Posts:** 1137 **Location:**

Just remember: never mix an apology with an excuse. Just admit that you were wrong, that there are no excuses for your behavior, and that you are very very sorry.

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