How to make your girlfriend not upset?

JacksColon · **Joined:** Mar 2007 **Posts:** 2018 **Location:**

the_wicked wrote:

Reise wrote:

Reach back like a pimp and slap the ho.

that would just land me in jail for a night =.=

AGAIN

JacksColon · **Joined:** Mar 2007 **Posts:** 2018 **Location:**

OH, and another thing, don't let her walk over you. Plus, if you were SUPPOSED to help her and ditched her for your bros, that's lame, even though I'm a big "bros before hos" kinda guy. Thing is, you gotta ask yourself "how much do I REALLY like this girl?" if you really really like/love her, then apologize, do something corny/cheesy like spell her name in petals or whatever (omg I can't believe I just recommended that! :shock:

) the whole goal here is to get her to calm down so you can get laid, right? I mean, yeah?

Trice · **Posted:** Tue Feb 19, 2008 4:12 pm

Dont sleep with her sister. That will make things worse... Afterwards.

Gifts and apologies work though.

Debiruman · **Joined:** Mar 2007 **Posts:** 51 **Location:**

I've got to agree with Ryoko on this one. Not really a flowers kind of situation.
Besides, if you only produce flowers when you've done something wrong then she'll learn pretty soon that they don't really mean anything!
I say give it time. Sometimes pushing girls to talk with you just makes it worse.
Give her time to calm down, but don't blank her entirely. She'll most likely come round when she's good and ready.
That's how things work for me! All depends on the individual, however.
To be honest, I'd say you would know her best and surely this can't be the first time you've made her mad? :wink:

iGod · **Joined:** Oct 2006 **Posts:** 3728 **Location:**

Blurred wrote:

Piss on her while she's sleeping

+1 Marking territory. Let her know how you feel about her by doing that

_Angels · **Joined:** Nov 2007 **Posts:** 707 **Location:**

hmm kinda depends on what u did..and why shes upset or madd.

Hostage · **Posted:** Wed Feb 20, 2008 9:39 pm

_Angels wrote:

hmm kinda depends on what u did..and why shes upset or madd.

the_wicked wrote:

She got mad cuz I didn't help her out with some stuff and instead went to chill with my friends.

It's in the first post.

Anywho personally I don't think it's something that should last long just let it blow over. At most just say sorry no need to go over the top with flowers over something so small.

Rainigul · **Joined:** Mar 2007 **Posts:** 4490 **Location:**

Trice wrote:

Dont sleep with her sister. That will make things worse... Afterwards.

You tell me that NOW!!??

Put a potato in your pants and she'll see what she's missing.

_Angels · **Joined:** Nov 2007 **Posts:** 707 **Location:**

lolz only a small thing like that o.o?
i think it will go over max in a week or two lol.
anywho try to give her some of your time too... maby take her out more , watch a movie together.. stuff like that. well dun ask if shes like rllyyyy annoyed u have to watch the timing too

Sharp324 · **Joined:** Jan 2007 **Posts:** 4383 **Location:**

_Angels wrote:

lolz only a small thing like that o.o?
i think it will go over max in a week or two lol.
anywho try to give her some of your time too... maby take her out more , watch a movie together.. stuff like that. well dun ask if shes like rllyyyy annoyed u have to watch the timing too

Not really a small thing, most girls would get really defensive over that. "Bros before hos" doesnt really work if you want a serious thing. I usually choose the girl im with over my friends...she deserves the time.

FireJammerXR · **Joined:** Jul 2006 **Posts:** 328 **Location:**

Buy her a whip and a queening stool and tell her she can have her way with you.

Dystopia · **Joined:** Jan 2007 **Posts:** 2317 **Location:**

Give her some space...then apologize, and actually mean it, girls can tell if you mean it or not...

Girls really arent that complicated, although they love to make it seem that way..

SaoKill · **Joined:** Jan 2008 **Posts:** 1265 **Location:**

the_wicked wrote:

Hershey wrote:

actually telling her your sorry and talking it out, helps.

if you try saying it wasnt your fault or she didnt ask you or w.e, that just makes it worse. if she wont talk to you, YOU have to confront her and try working it out

i said sorry, lol. i want to talk to her about it but she wont respond to me ffs >_<

Have a friend help you guys out.

Sharp324 · **Joined:** Jan 2007 **Posts:** 4383 **Location:**

SaoKill wrote:

the_wicked wrote:

Hershey wrote:

actually telling her your sorry and talking it out, helps.

if you try saying it wasnt your fault or she didnt ask you or w.e, that just makes it worse. if she wont talk to you, YOU have to confront her and try working it out

i said sorry, lol. i want to talk to her about it but she wont respond to me ffs >_<

Have a friend help you guys out.

Personally i hate getting 3rd parties involved in a fight

Dystopia · **Joined:** Jan 2007 **Posts:** 2317 **Location:**

Sharp324 wrote:

Personally i hate getting 3rd parties involved in a fight

Likewise.

Millenium · **Joined:** Oct 2006 **Posts:** 2732 **Location:** Waterloo

I personally think you should give up on her. If I ask my bf for help and he ignores me to hang out with his friends - instant break up. The guy's not worth my time and I recommend you put aside relationships until you're ready to commit. Sorry for sounding harsh but its honestly for the good of your girl. If you can't take care of her, let her go and there are plenty of good guys out there who can make her happy, that person isn't you though, if you keep up the attitude you have.

Sharp324 · **Joined:** Jan 2007 **Posts:** 4383 **Location:**

Millenium wrote:

I personally think you should give up on her. If I ask my bf for help and he ignores me to hang out with his friends - instant break up. The guy's not worth my time and I recommend you put aside relationships until you're ready to commit. Sorry for sounding harsh but its honestly for the good of your girl. If you can't take care of her, let her go and there are plenty of good guys out there who can make her happy, that person isn't you though, if you keep up the attitude you have.

Was waiting for a girl to say it lol, didnt want to sound like i was hating my own sex..

Millenium · **Joined:** Oct 2006 **Posts:** 2732 **Location:** Waterloo

Sharp324 wrote:

Was waiting for a girl to say it lol, didnt want to sound like i was hating my own sex..

Well I mean I think you just know how to handle bros and gf at the same time. Sometimes chilling with bro should be put before the girl but that's providing its not like a really important time where she really needs you to be there. I'm sure the girl shows a lot of understanding in that case. On the other hand, if you plain don't know when you should spend time with your girl and when with your bro, you're not ready for a relationship.

AngelEyes · **Joined:** Jan 2008 **Posts:** 633 **Location:**

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Well I mean I think you just know how to handle bros and gf at the same time. Sometimes chilling with bro should be put before the girl but that's providing its not like a really important time where she really needs you to be there. I'm sure the girl shows a lot of understanding in that case. On the other hand, if you plain don't know when you should spend time with your girl and when with your bro, you're not ready for a relationship.

said perfectly.

Although I also like Ryoko's point, if you buy gifts for something like this, that's setting a bad precedent. You'll be buying flowers and chocolates for everything that happens.

redneck · **Joined:** Aug 2007 **Posts:** 2342 **Location:**

Millenium wrote:

Sharp324 wrote:

Was waiting for a girl to say it lol, didnt want to sound like i was hating my own sex..

Well I mean I think you just know how to handle bros and gf at the same time. Sometimes chilling with bro should be put before the girl but that's providing its not like a really important time where she really needs you to be there. I'm sure the girl shows a lot of understanding in that case. On the other hand, if you plain don't know when you should spend time with your girl and when with your bro, you're not ready for a relationship.

Dont listen to Milly...She's just high maintainece.

ArchYourFace · **Joined:** Oct 2007 **Posts:** 638 **Location:**

StealMySoda wrote:

Just give it time.

Ditching is not cool guys.

Live above the influence.

depends on whether shes an overdependant, controling, manipulative, bad word.

skulldiver · **Posted:** Thu Feb 21, 2008 4:59 pm

Just get the whip and smack here.
Show her who's the dominant factor in the relationship, and then have hot make-up sex.

It's as easy as that

JacksColon · **Joined:** Mar 2007 **Posts:** 2018 **Location:**

Most girls like it when you go "downtown" so, try doing that. If you're a wuss and won't, then you're not a real man

zxcv12345 · **Joined:** Dec 2007 **Posts:** 147 **Location:**

Sharp324 wrote:

Apologize? Really its just to know what to say but it depends the person. Personally never had a girl stay mad at me too long cause they cant help but forgive me. But you know her better than we do (I hope haha)Just keep trying to talk to her. But dont get mad at her for it, i can understand why she is mad.

yea apologize and say you miss her xD

Draquish · **Joined:** Mar 2006 **Posts:** 6423 **Location:** ____

Dystopia wrote:

Give her some space...then apologize, and actually mean it, girls can tell if you mean it or not...

Girls really arent that complicated, although they love to make it seem that way..

No they can't, and no they're not.

Dude, just let it blow over. She'll get over it, and if she doesn't; then I suggest calling it quits.

Sharp324 · **Joined:** Jan 2007 **Posts:** 4383 **Location:**

You know, the topic creator could tell us how it went lol. Asked for our expertise and disappears.

Dystopia · **Joined:** Jan 2007 **Posts:** 2317 **Location:**

Millenium wrote:

Sharp324 wrote:

Was waiting for a girl to say it lol, didnt want to sound like i was hating my own sex..

Well I mean I think you just know how to handle bros and gf at the same time. Sometimes chilling with bro should be put before the girl but that's providing its not like a really important time where she really needs you to be there. I'm sure the girl shows a lot of understanding in that case. On the other hand, if you plain don't know when you should spend time with your girl and when with your bro, you're not ready for a relationship.

Marry me :3 :love:

jk, i got your hopes up didnt I
:roll:

vivien · **Joined:** Sep 2007 **Posts:** 229 **Location:**

dont keep trying to talk to her and apologize lol. some girls are creeped out and annoyed by that. (like me XD) . ignore her and she will come to you

Ryoko · **Joined:** Dec 2005 **Posts:** 6390 **Location:**

Girls do the same shit all the time its called "girls night out" which directly translates into:

"I am going to the bar. Im going to drink, flirt, point out hot guys to my friends, dance with other people, not answer my cell, meet guys, and your not there to tell me what to do or get pissed off about it. And if your smart and realize im being a slut, your 'insecure' and controlling."

skulldiver · **Posted:** Fri Feb 22, 2008 3:06 pm

Ryoko wrote:

Girls do the same shit all the time its called "girls night out" which directly translates into:

"I am going to the bar. Im going to drink, flirt, point out hot guys to my friends, dance with other people, not answer my cell, meet guys, and your not there to tell me what to do or get pissed off about it. And if your smart and realize im being a slut, your 'insecure' and controlling."

No offense, but it sounds like you are promoting being gay.
Surely not every goddamn (hawt) girl is a slut.

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