help me understand

cpinney · **Posted:** Sun Sep 07, 2008 5:39 am

help me to understand. why are girls attracted to guys who will end up treating them like shit, and not nice guys who would bend over backwards for them? nice guys finish last,

prove me wrong faggots

t0rch · **Joined:** Mar 2008 **Posts:** 759 **Location:** ...

cpinney wrote:

help me to understand. why are girls attracted to guys who will end up treating them like shit, and not nice guys who would bend over backwards for them? nice guys finish last,

prove me wrong faggots

lol, happens all the time at my school, sucks though if you really like the girl and she is with some dick

tedtwilliger · **Posted:** Sun Sep 07, 2008 5:43 am

Just sit back and laugh when you see that jerk lying in hospital after trying to pick a fight with someone or when he ends up working 50 hours a week to keep a roof over his head.

If you really are a nice guy than you will find a girl who will treat you right. If the girl you like is with some jerk and doesn't appreciate you for who you are than shes not the girl for you, right? I know i would rather be with someone who appreciates me for the things other people dont. If thats going to take a long time to find.. then so be it.

_Scarlett_ · **Joined:** Jan 2007 **Posts:** 1567 **Location:**

Well, to be honest, don't think we'll [those considered as nice guys] ever understand why girls/women stay with asshats that treat them so badly. But you shouldn't worry about it. Yeah, it's a sad sight, but overall it's nothing to get caught up in.

antics · **Posted:** Sun Sep 07, 2008 7:18 am

u cant be nice all the time
it will ruin it theyll call u a bitch and leave u after a while

BrokenSaint · **Posted:** Sun Sep 07, 2008 8:21 am

cpinney wrote:

help me to understand. why are girls attracted to guys who will end up treating them like shit, and not nice guys who would bend over backwards for them? nice guys finish last,

prove me wrong faggots

Let us share our sorrow. -_-

NO_SILK_4_ME · **Joined:** Jan 2008 **Posts:** 1016 **Location:**

cpinney wrote:

help me to understand. why are girls attracted to guys who will end up treating them like shit, and not nice guys who would bend over backwards for them? nice guys finish last,

prove me wrong faggots

It's simple, people are always looking for something else. If you're a nice, goody-two shoes kinda person, you'll want to explore something new, something bad. Those guys tend to be total sociopaths who will treat said girl like an object, but she still sticks around. Why? For the thrill of it, they're enticing, care-free, and probably an asshat, BUT, they're different from the girl, and she wants something else.

Priam · **Posted:** Sun Sep 07, 2008 9:03 am

Simple, there's no danger in nice guys. You always know what you're gonna get. While those tough idiots might suprise you by cheating one day. And girls seem to like to take those chances.

antics · **Posted:** Sun Sep 07, 2008 3:57 pm

a girl can only take so much shit
so when their done theyll leave the bad boy and come back and see they dont want a bad boy

Shadow · **Joined:** Feb 2008 **Posts:** 1039 **Location:** lolwut

BrokenSaint wrote:

cpinney wrote:

help me to understand. why are girls attracted to guys who will end up treating them like shit, and not nice guys who would bend over backwards for them? nice guys finish last,

prove me wrong faggots

Let us share our sorrow. -_-

Please, take my sorrow too, I'd like to live a while without any.

Squirt · **Joined:** Jan 2008 **Posts:** 8186 **Location:**

Someone posted a article about this once. It has something to do with caveman ancestors and how the cave woman wanted the strongest caveman and that is somehow still in our genetic coding. Some shit like that

blackfalcon · **Joined:** Jun 2007 **Posts:** 1865 **Location:**

why? because the guy who treats her like shit doesnt give her everything she wants and wont agree with her on everything. he's independant, doesnt need her, and all girls love bad boys.

cpinney · **Posted:** Sun Sep 07, 2008 4:23 pm

fine >_> i guess im gonna turn into an asshole then.

antics · **Posted:** Sun Sep 07, 2008 4:26 pm

cpinney wrote:

fine >_> i guess im gonna turn into an asshole then.

thats not the solution-.-
just dont be a nice guy all the time

no worries though she will leave the bad boy once she figures out he is a complete penis head

blackfalcon · **Joined:** Jun 2007 **Posts:** 1865 **Location:**

http://www.enotalone.com/forum/showthread.php?t=99501

and maybe check this out lol

http://www.themodernman.com/21_ways_to_meet_women.html?gclid=CKOCk7-SypUCFQIyxwodDjZfiA

Verfo · **Posted:** Sun Sep 07, 2008 5:54 pm

i have the same problem as you cpinney, but what happens always is the "assholes" fight with thier gf then they want to come and cry over our shoulder =/

antics · **Posted:** Sun Sep 07, 2008 6:20 pm

if ur in the friend zone tough luck she just doesnt have any intrest to go out with you ever. she just doesnt liek you liek that
wut is she suppose to do go out with every nice guy that tells her i like you?
you have ur standards so does she

Norain_ · **Joined:** May 2008 **Posts:** 785 **Location:**

Priam wrote:

Simple, there's no danger in nice guys. You always know what you're gonna get. While those tough idiots might suprise you by cheating one day. And girls seem to like to take those chances.

But why change ur personality to something you arent? I wouldnt try be some1 im not for a girl tho. If she doesnt like it so be it...

CrimsonNuker · **Joined:** Aug 2006 **Posts:** 13791 **Location:**

TBH, I've seen this happen one too many times, when you're too nice to a girl, they will take advantage of that and make you whipped lol

"Call me in 5 mins kay?"

*WTF I HAVE SHIT TO DO*

Cruor · **Joined:** Apr 2006 **Posts:** 1999 **Location:**

Outstanding women are far fewer than outstanding men. Therefore, the more distinguished you are as a man, the harder you must work to find your match. In other words, the reason why women seem to be attracted to lowlifes is because there are more average women than average men, so they must scrape the bottom of the barrel to make up the difference. That's my theory at least.

Draquish · **Joined:** Mar 2006 **Posts:** 6423 **Location:** ____

I believe its not assholes girls are attracted to, but dominating guys.

Nice guys tend to be wusses, and tend to be whipped by the end of the relationship.

Screw that.

Asteroid · **Joined:** Aug 2008 **Posts:** 626 **Location:**

they do it for the image.
girls somethings want to go out with the guys who are hardcore, the jocks, the ones that would make them look good.

its vice versa for guys too. going out with stuck up cheerleaders and stuff

CrimsonNuker · **Joined:** Aug 2006 **Posts:** 13791 **Location:**

Draquish wrote:

I believe its not assholes girls are attracted to, but dominating guys.

Nice guys tend to be wusses, and tend to be whipped by the end of the relationship.

Screw that.

Haha THE ALPHA MALE

tedtwilliger · **Posted:** Sun Sep 07, 2008 10:07 pm

cpinney wrote:

fine >_> i guess im gonna turn into an asshole then.

At your age this may seem like the answer. But when people get older and more mature they get to a point where they want to settle down and actually be in love for the rest of their lives. Now who do you think they are gonna choose? The jerk who earns a small amount of money, abuses everyone around him and treats most people like shit? Or the nice guy who has worked hard to get where he is and can support her and treat her with respect?

Things wont be like they are forever, nice guys do end up winning in the end.

MrFudge · **Joined:** Jan 2007 **Posts:** 5731 **Location:** None

Women are attracted to confidence, it just so happens the "dicks" or whatever tend to be more confident than the nice guys who usually get pushed around.

Just grow some balls and you can land any female.

.

PuppetOfGaea · **Posted:** Sun Sep 07, 2008 10:11 pm

That's only true before the age of 20-25. See, hormones are this magical thing, especially in girls, that cause your brain to be more confused than a German Jew. They think they want the hottest guy, and it doesn't matter how he treats her, she's happy because she's got him. It's not until the frontal lobe fully develops that girls realize that they don't need to be treated like shit to be with a guy they're attracted to.

ShizKnight · **Joined:** Mar 2006 **Posts:** 3104 **Location:** _______

cpinney wrote:

help me to understand. why are girls attracted to guys who will end up treating them like shit, and not nice guys who would bend over backwards for them? nice guys finish last,

prove me wrong faggots

The so-called "nice guys" think that girls will come to them when it is the other way around.

xengthao95 · **Posted:** Mon Sep 08, 2008 12:38 am

well girls are absolute totally addicted to hot dudes but later get hit from behind(this is where the total idiot thing comes from)

cpinney · **Posted:** Mon Sep 08, 2008 12:45 am

tedtwilliger wrote:

cpinney wrote:

fine >_> i guess im gonna turn into an asshole then.

At your age this may seem like the answer. But when people get older and more mature they get to a point where they want to settle down and actually be in love for the rest of their lives. Now who do you think they are gonna choose? The jerk who earns a small amount of money, abuses everyone around him and treats most people like shit? Or the nice guy who has worked hard to get where he is and can support her and treat her with respect?

Things wont be like they are forever, nice guys do end up winning in the end.

u do know im only less than a year younger than u right? lol xD

but anyway thanks all for your opinions on the matter

TOloseGT · **Joined:** Sep 2006 **Posts:** 7129 **Location:**

hm...the girls i've met don't like guys who treat them like shit...

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