Marriage and childrens.

Mirosuke · **Posted:** Mon Jun 22, 2009 4:25 pm

I was wondering if you guys/girls would like to get married and have childrens in the future?

I don't know the chinese here but, i think my familly has a tradition that a chinese has to engage with another chinese so their son will have a 'legal' chinese name and also will following the chinese family legacy/tradition.

What i mean is, i don't really care this... i'll love the girl i'll choose, but a bit preferable if her is from china

(that doesn't mean i'd love by half if she weren't lawl)

Anyways, on topic: Marriage? Yes. Childrens? yes, why not? A daughter.
her name? Still thinkin' on one >_>
Oh and at which age will you like to get married? 25 - 28

I know getting married and having childrens is a biggg responsability... so..

lavapockets · **Posted:** Mon Jun 22, 2009 4:41 pm

I'm married already. Not interested in children, don't really like babies, have a hard enough time keeping up with my cats so I don't think I should really have kids. Too much work, too much money, and way less time to spend vacationing, hanging out, and being with my hubby. Maybe one day that magical biological clock will go off but I'm not going hold my breath.

iGoddess · **Posted:** Mon Jun 22, 2009 4:53 pm

Im not planning to get married anytime soon, before i get married and have children i wanna do everything i have ever dreamed of doing.
I wanna get a job with a good enough income to be able to get my kids anything they need or want.
Im not even sure if i wanna make a baby, i'v always wanted a cute Japanese girl as my kid lol, i think i wanna adopt one! :shock:

Priam · **Posted:** Mon Jun 22, 2009 5:19 pm

Not getting married anytime soon. Been living together for a year though. Eventually, i'd like to have kids. But i'd rather be 30 first.

only_me · **Joined:** Mar 2008 **Posts:** 561 **Location:**

when i first saw the title i remembered the show "Married with Children"

heroo · **Joined:** Sep 2006 **Posts:** 6618 **Location:**

No getting married in a long time.

And for children, I'd love to have a son one day.

blackfalcon · **Joined:** Jun 2007 **Posts:** 1865 **Location:**

not gettin married any time soon. but id like to get married between 26-30. and ya a kid would be nice, id like a boy but girls are cool.

woutR · **Posted:** Mon Jun 22, 2009 5:35 pm

Who knows, time will tell.
I hate children so I guess that's out of the question.

Isis · **Joined:** Apr 2006 **Posts:** 4171 **Location:**

Maybe one day...

Reise · **Joined:** May 2006 **Posts:** 6650 **Location:**

A daughter? Forget that, I want a son.

Gotta pass the torch.

Xyzzzy · **Joined:** May 2007 **Posts:** 2629 **Location:**

I dont know I dont want kids, and I'm not sure if I want a marriage. I'm sure I fall for it and end knocking up some girl I cant stand and ruining my life no matter how hard I try not to.

Idfk I really hope I never get married

Psychedeelic · **Joined:** Mar 2007 **Posts:** 716 **Location:**

sometimes I want, sometimes I dont, lol
mostly not, I almost got engaged 1 and a half ago, and I'm sooo happy I didnt do it.

At least I got married in a game a while ago LOL, but divorced the next day as I only married the dude cause I was angry at someone else. I hope I wont do that IRL haha

DumboDii · **Joined:** Sep 2008 **Posts:** 2961 **Location:** Finland

Maybe when I have finished school and have permanent job I could consider it but not before.

SwordCloud · **Posted:** Mon Jun 22, 2009 8:47 pm

I'm married withmy xbox360 <3 :love:

Ayamu · **Posted:** Mon Jun 22, 2009 8:58 pm

well, seeing as i just got married on the 15th i would say i love it so far.
just one little tip for people who want to get married.
if your wife says do what you want, it never means do what you want, it means do what i say or you wont get any later, got it?

evilpeta · **Joined:** Feb 2006 **Posts:** 895 **Location:** ...

i'll get married once i have enough money to actually maintain a family. that would mean, having a stable high paying job, a car, a house, and lots of stuff. i want to fool around as much as i can with girls until mid 30's, then get married once im around 35.

children? i want 3 kids, 2 boys and 1 girl. girl being the youngest. names? not sure yet..

inky · **Joined:** Nov 2006 **Posts:** 4025 **Location:**

Marriage, yes. Planning to live together for a year or two after college graduation.

Kids...someday. Late 20s perhaps. The thought of having a kid this early..is scary.

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Oh..and I'd rather get a son. Much easier to take care of especially during those dreaded teenage years.

Sacchin · **Joined:** Sep 2007 **Posts:** 2797

Ayamu wrote:

if your wife says do what you want, it never means do what you want, it means do what i say or you wont get any later, got it?

lol That applies with girlfriends as well =p

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I want to get married in the next 2-3 years. A daughter would be nice, but later on, when I'm much older and settled down.

LazyJohny · **Joined:** May 2009 **Posts:** 172 **Location:**

Xyzzzy wrote:

I dont know I dont want kids, and I'm not sure if I want a marriage. I'm sure I fall for it and end knocking up some girl I cant stand and ruining my life no matter how hard I try not to.

Idfk I really hope I never get married

^This

XemnasXD · **Posted:** Mon Jun 22, 2009 10:09 pm

if i ever find a partner that makes me content i still don't think i'd be interested in kids. But you gotta keep the bloodline going somehow so i wouldn't be adverse to the idea...girl or boy doesn't matter to me i'd raise either one to be tough enough to survive...

wootpops · **Posted:** Mon Jun 22, 2009 10:18 pm

my girlfriend is chinese, thank god she dosen't have that tradtion op has.
sure id like to get married some day, children ehh not so much.

Tasdik · **Joined:** Jan 2007 **Posts:** 13206 **Location:** Life

I plan on getting married within the next 5ish years. And yeah I'd like to have 3-4 kids. Although I'd like the first born to be a boy, after that I don't really care.

iGod · **Joined:** Oct 2006 **Posts:** 3728 **Location:**

Marriage yes, children no, not soon anyway.

XemnasXD · **Posted:** Mon Jun 22, 2009 10:45 pm

whats with you guys in having sons first and then girls later like you want something cute to take care of after you get the main course out of the way...

Mirosuke · **Posted:** Mon Jun 22, 2009 10:47 pm

wootpops wrote:

my girlfriend is chinese, thank god she dosen't have that tradtion op has.
sure id like to get married some day, children ehh not so much.

Lucky you :d

Tasdik · **Joined:** Jan 2007 **Posts:** 13206 **Location:** Life

XemnasXD wrote:

whats with you guys in having sons first and then girls later like you want something cute to take care of after you get the main course out of the way...

Actually, I want an older brother who would be able to protect and look after his younger siblings.

Amarisa · **Joined:** Feb 2008 **Posts:** 4049 **Location:** Magic

im going to have 500 kids and force them to grind green mobs all day while in the process getting me billions of gold bwhahahahahahahaha

not really............only if they were bad :p

Marriage now days is different then before not many people actually feel the need too. women mostly because they can get a job now unlike pre World war 2. sure they could get jobs but most stay at home with the kids and also got less money if they even did have a job. now everyone works and such so its not so important and the fact that in america religion is starting to die down (at least who i talk to). pretty much all marriage is now is a way to get benefits from the government and then children are the same in a way.

Barotix · **Joined:** Jul 2007 **Posts:** 9250 **Location:** Sand

Marriage: late 20s, early 30s. Ideally 28, 30 ish. My wife will be 1-5 years younger than me :3 Parents want me to go home and marry a Nigerian woman. I'm going to marry a white woman or an Asian. Have some mulattoes.

Kids: 30 - 40. Yeah, probably. I'm great with kids! Can't stand the damn things though >_>

Sex: Twins, dudes.

Sharp324 · **Joined:** Jan 2007 **Posts:** 4383 **Location:**

Wanted both but who knows...don't really care now.

Amarisa · **Joined:** Feb 2008 **Posts:** 4049 **Location:** Magic

Barotix wrote:

Marriage: late 20s, early 30s. Ideally 28, 30 ish. My wife will be 1-5 years younger than me :3 Parents want me to go home and marry a Nigerian woman. I'm going to marry a white woman or an Asian. Have some mulattoes.

Kids: 30 - 40. Yeah, probably. I'm great with kids! Can't stand the damn things though >_>

Sex: Twins, dudes.

i thought you were white o.0 me confused ><

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