I'm starting my first planned out build after starting SRO a week ago

. What i'm planning on is making a healer/support that can defend at close range too. So far this is what i have planned:
5str:3int w/ a possible transition to 5str:4int
Max out force
Max out weapon
Lvl 70 cold (for physical defense as well as frost/freeze for stick sits.)
Lvl 70 light or fire
Garments for armor
I know this probably isn't a very good build, but hey, you're supposed to have fun with it right? Lol. I'm not sure if s/s, glavie, or spear is best for this build though, and weather or should use light or fire. And any insights on what i can do to further perfect my build?