well i was going to a hybrid because i used to be a Pure Int. I died way too often

so i ended up going Pure Str. I love pure str due to the HP and the high critical damage
but for a Hybrid spear, i have no idea about what the % or points should be. i want a little extra hp so i dont die as much, but really dislike a shield (more money to spend

) So i was going for a Hybrid Int. Any suggestions?
thanks