thanks to all the nice helpful people on these forums and also in SRO. im not gonna sit here and flame SRO for a whole post, its just run it course for me now.....i still dont know what to do with my guild and char tho.
sensible suggestions will be welcomed
Thanks Ryoko, Key-J, SG, Hells, Stallowned, Hello_Kitty and Sin (im very sorry if i cant remember the other mods

) for all your help, special thanks to Ryoko for a great resource in these forums.
Edit: Thanks for the reminders of our friendly mods x