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Draquish · **Joined:** Mar 2006 **Posts:** 6423 **Location:** ____

HTVHitokiri wrote:

I met someone who spoke to their husband for 3 years by internet and phone, ended up being married. Its stupid to say its not a legitimate relationship if you don't have physical contact.

I would almost say that while they are harder to maintain, these relationships force you to see someones personality, and to just see that. How many people have relationships for purely physical reasons? And nobody can look at someone and see their personality. I personally couldn't pull it off, but if you can handle the long distance part of it I don't see what the big deal is.

You are not gonna meet the perfect people in your town always. They may be off in California, in France, in Holland, in Spain, maybe a few cities over from you. I don't get why people give such a problem to people who have internet relationships.

*claps*

I totally agree.

Caras · **Posted:** Fri Mar 02, 2007 1:07 pm

HTVHitokiri wrote:

I met someone who spoke to their husband for 3 years by internet and phone, ended up being married. Its stupid to say its not a legitimate relationship if you don't have physical contact.

I would almost say that while they are harder to maintain, these relationships force you to see someones personality, and to just see that. How many people have relationships for purely physical reasons? And nobody can look at someone and see their personality. I personally couldn't pull it off, but if you can handle the long distance part of it I don't see what the big deal is.

You are not gonna meet the perfect people in your town always. They may be off in California, in France, in Holland, in Spain, maybe a few cities over from you. I don't get why people give such a problem to people who have internet relationships.

That was poetic.

Demarthl · **Joined:** Jan 2006 **Posts:** 2296

yah, try on the other hemisphere

Pan_Raider(`_´) · **Joined:** Jul 2006 **Posts:** 4737 **Location:**

Perfect Angel wrote:

HAPPY 5 MONTH ANNAVERSARY!
I love you Z3r0! :love:

Z3r0 wrote:

Haha happy 5 months babe!
I love you too :love:

What r u 2

Blackchocob0 · **Joined:** Sep 2006 **Posts:** 2840 **Location:** HIV, CA

My name is Nick. It's not a big deal. :roll:

Anyways you guys all misread, I don't have anything against internet dating. I was merely asking the question: if asked out or hit on by someone you can see everyday, would you say 'no, I've already got a boyfriend/girlfriend?'

...Would you forgoe all sexual contact except for your own hand just to be faithful to someone who you at the most look at and talk to over a webcam?

Living with somebody day in/day out is completely different from falling in 'love' with someone's personality. Dating somebody over the internet is a completely different world than dating in real life.

BlackFox · **Posted:** Fri Mar 02, 2007 4:59 pm

Blackchocob0 wrote:

Living with somebody day in/day out is completely different from falling in 'love' with someone's personality. Dating somebody over the internet is a completely different world than dating in real life.

Little different is it but think about is first step to meet someone over internet and next step can be meet outside from internet and I know some are married now and working fine for them...
And P.s was no webcam involved

Anh_Hung_Rom · **Posted:** Fri Mar 02, 2007 5:28 pm

BlackChocobo,

What's with you? If they choose each other to be the special someone, let them be. How they choose to run their lives if up to them. Don't butt in.

And you said: "But yeah bottomline, you ain't boning your online girlfriend. Therefore, you're not in a REAL relationship. You're in an ONLINE relationship." That's just your superficial definition of a relationship. I see nothing wrong with two people caring for one another and being happy because they have each other.

Isis · **Joined:** Apr 2006 **Posts:** 4171 **Location:**

There is nothing wrong with online relationships. As long as if you decide to meet someone to have someone else with you..

Rockshmo · **Joined:** May 2006 **Posts:** 1062 **Location:** rehab

Idk why it's so hard to answer Black's question.

Let's face it sex is a vital portion of a relationship, whether for enjoyment, or to conceive a child. All he wants to know is would they turn down an offer from someone they know personally because of their ties with someone over the internet.

Is that so hard to answer? Or are you all afraid of looking like a bad person by saying you would take the offer?

I for one would take the offer, without a doubt.

Isis · **Joined:** Apr 2006 **Posts:** 4171 **Location:**

But its not all about sex..

There are couples that don't have sex before getting married.

Anh_Hung_Rom · **Posted:** Fri Mar 02, 2007 5:52 pm

Well it's like you go to a funeral and ask the widow when is she gonna marry again. Being considerate FTW!

Caras · **Posted:** Fri Mar 02, 2007 5:53 pm

But when they do, its sex fest for a week. Life revolves around it.

Demarthl · **Joined:** Jan 2006 **Posts:** 2296

i don't care who offered me what in person, i won't drop what i have for some cheap one night crap.

Rockshmo · **Joined:** May 2006 **Posts:** 1062 **Location:** rehab

Then that's your choice, just as it is their choice to engage in an online relationship.

I think Black's question was just a little too personal for open discussion.

Blackchocob0 · **Joined:** Sep 2006 **Posts:** 2840 **Location:** HIV, CA

Anh_Hung_Rom wrote:

Well it's like you go to a funeral and ask the widow when is she gonna marry again. Being considerate FTW!

Sorry, I'm an asshole.

And seriously you people need to calm down and READ WHAT I SAY. I have nothing against people dating over the internet. Whatever floats your boat, I really don't care all that much. I'm simply curious as to the question I've asked...I don't know how many times.

Gandalf I'm not superficial because I believe being physical is an essential part of a healthy relationship. It's simply my definition.

Echos · **Joined:** Feb 2007 **Posts:** 586 **Location:**

there's nothing bad in dating over internet ...
let them live their own lifes

Blackchocob0 · **Joined:** Sep 2006 **Posts:** 2840 **Location:** HIV, CA

2fast4u wrote:

there's nothing bad in dating over internet ...
let them live their own lifes

Cos I'm really trying to stop them. :roll:

Echos · **Joined:** Feb 2007 **Posts:** 586 **Location:**

Blackchocob0 wrote:

2fast4u wrote:

there's nothing bad in dating over internet ...
let them live their own lifes

Cos I'm really trying to stop them. :roll:

why?

Blackchocob0 · **Joined:** Sep 2006 **Posts:** 2840 **Location:** HIV, CA

2fast4u wrote:

Blackchocob0 wrote:

2fast4u wrote:

there's nothing bad in dating over internet ...
let them live their own lifes

Cos I'm really trying to stop them. :roll:

why?

LOLOL....

Stallowned · **Posted:** Fri Mar 02, 2007 11:32 pm

Lol at everyone in this thread becoming defensive and avoiding the real question like the plague.

Blackchocob0 · **Joined:** Sep 2006 **Posts:** 2840 **Location:** HIV, CA

Lol @ the whole thread. Man it was intended to be a congratulatory post on a 5 month(who celebrates aniversaries by every month...?

) anniversary, and I turned it into a debate about online dating.

Man I'm an asshole.

The funny part? I've had an online girlfriend back in the day in my early stages of Runescape. I already told you fools, I have nothing in particular against online dating. I was asking a simple question in relation to online dating - a question all but Zero himself(though I bet it was a lie, his girlfriend is reading

) avoided. I wonder why?

hitokiri · **Joined:** Feb 2006 **Posts:** 3503 **Location:** here

Blackchocob0 wrote:

Lol @ the whole thread. Man it was intended to be a congratulatory post on a 5 month(who celebrates aniversaries by every month...?

) anniversary, and I turned it into a debate about online dating.

Man I'm an asshole.

The funny part? I've had an online girlfriend back in the day in my early stages of Runescape. I already told you fools, I have nothing in particular against online dating. I was asking a simple question in relation to online dating - a question all but Zero himself(though I bet it was a lie, his girlfriend is reading

) avoided. I wonder why?

aha! so you admit to finding Gorillas attractive?!

[SD]happynoobing · **Joined:** Jan 2007 **Posts:** 2349 **Location:**

2fast4u wrote:

Blackchocob0 wrote:

2fast4u wrote:

there's nothing bad in dating over internet ...
let them live their own lifes

Cos I'm really trying to stop them. :roll:

why?

ahaha, funniest reply i've seen on this forum, lol. the epitome of sarcasm

XemnasXD · **Posted:** Sat Mar 03, 2007 6:53 am

Blackchocob0 wrote:

Lol @ the whole thread. Man it was intended to be a congratulatory post on a 5 month(who celebrates aniversaries by every month...?

) anniversary, and I turned it into a debate about online dating.

Man I'm an asshole.

The funny part? I've had an online girlfriend back in the day in my early stages of Runescape. I already told you fools, I have nothing in particular against online dating. I was asking a simple question in relation to online dating - a question all but Zero himself(though I bet it was a lie, his girlfriend is reading

) avoided. I wonder why?

Didn't you say you'd quit posting on this topic like....9 post back 0o....o0....wtf just stop already your starting to repeat yourself which isn't good cause you just keep reiterating the same insults lightly sprinkled with empathy to disguise it.

Congrats to the couple :love:

i'd have an easier time remembering your names if my screen wasn't blasted with choco babble

Caras · **Posted:** Sat Mar 03, 2007 7:04 am

This post has just been a giant flame post, full of arguments. Why isn't this locked yet?

XemnasXD · **Posted:** Sat Mar 03, 2007 7:08 am

amazing how :love:

can inspire so much

Demarthl · **Joined:** Jan 2006 **Posts:** 2296

Blackchocob0 wrote:

Lol @ the whole thread. Man it was intended to be a congratulatory post on a 5 month(who celebrates aniversaries by every month...?

) anniversary, and I turned it into a debate about online dating.

Man I'm an asshole.

The funny part? I've had an online girlfriend back in the day in my early stages of Runescape. I already told you fools, I have nothing in particular against online dating. I was asking a simple question in relation to online dating - a question all but Zero himself(though I bet it was a lie, his girlfriend is reading

) avoided. I wonder why?

i answered it : |

Draquish · **Joined:** Mar 2006 **Posts:** 6423 **Location:** ____

Blackchocob0 wrote:

Gandalf I'm not superficial because I believe being physical is an essential part of a healthy relationship. It's simply my definition.

Sex satisfies the flesh, love satisfies the soul.

Because sex can be given to you by any given person; But love, now there is something you need to appreciate.

[SD]happynoobing · **Joined:** Jan 2007 **Posts:** 2349 **Location:**

draquish wrote:

Blackchocob0 wrote:

Gandalf I'm not superficial because I believe being physical is an essential part of a healthy relationship. It's simply my definition.

Sex satisfies the flesh, love satisfies the soul.

Because sex can be given to you by any given person; But love, now there is something you need to appreciate.

John Keats II, w00t :roll:

Draquish · **Joined:** Mar 2006 **Posts:** 6423 **Location:** ____

Actually, those are all me own words, but yes, John Keats IS teh pwnage...leave me alone!!

"A poor, weak, palsy-stricken, churchyard thing."

The Eve of St. Agnes. Stanza 18.

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